In 2024, I made the decision to leave a company where I had spent eight years of my career. It wasn’t an easy choice—this was the place that taught me everything I know about the renewable energy industry, and I have countless fond memories of my time there. But now, in my new role, I couldn’t be happier.
Looking back, it’s clear that leaving was the right move for me, but it wasn’t a decision I made lightly. It’s made me reflect on the signs that told me it was time to walk away from a company I had given nearly a decade of my life to. So, how do you know when it’s time to make a change?
Let my story serve as an example of the key things to watch for—those moments and patterns that might indicate it’s time to dust off your resume and take the next step in your career.
Respecting Your Boss—and Feeling It in Return
It’s not always easy to tell if your managers truly respect you. In an ideal world, great managers would pull you aside and let you know they value your contributions and respect the work you do. But, in reality, that kind of direct feedback is less common than we’d like.
During my time at the company, I worked under multiple directors whom I still respect to this day. But I often found myself wondering if that respect was mutual. They rarely, if ever, expressed it outright. It wasn’t something I dwelled on constantly, but the thought lingered in the back of my mind. And every time I found myself questioning other aspects of my job—whether it was frustrations with company policies, inconsistencies in leadership, or missed opportunities—it would resurface.
That uncertainty about where I stood with leadership became a recurring theme. Over time, it contributed to a growing sense of dissatisfaction, making me wonder if I was truly in the right place. Respect is one of those intangible factors that can weigh heavily on your decision to stay or move on, even if you don’t always realize it in the moment.
The Power of Advocacy: Who’s Speaking Up for You?
Support within a company can make all the difference in your career, and I learned that the hard way. Looking back, I can’t help but realize how much my ability to advance depended on whether people were willing to speak up for me when I wasn’t in the room. Having someone to advocate for you is everything. Without that support, moving up the ladder feels nearly impossible.
I remember seeing firsthand how powerful it was to have people in my corner—those who understood my value and weren’t afraid to vouch for me behind closed doors. Whether it was for a promotion or an opportunity to shine, it wasn’t just about doing the work; it was about having people speak your name in a positive light when the decisions were being made. And that didn’t just happen on its own.
But I also saw the flip side, and it stung. There’s nothing more frustrating than watching someone climb the ladder only to pull it up behind them once they’ve made it. It’s the complete opposite of what true leadership should be about. Leaders who genuinely care lift others as they rise, creating opportunities for the people they believe in along the way.
Looking back, I realize how much I needed those advocates—those who had my back and championed my growth. If you’re in the same position, take a moment to ask yourself: Who’s in your corner? Are there people who see your potential and are willing to speak up for you when it matters? If not, it may be time to look at your surroundings and see if they’re helping you get to where you want to go. In the end, those advocates make all the difference.
Is Your Pay Really Reflecting What You’re Worth?
It’s pretty obvious, but in today’s world of LinkedIn, Glassdoor, and Indeed, it’s incredibly easy to figure out if you’re being compensated fairly for the work you’re doing. Notice I said “for the work you’re doing,” not “for your title.” Companies love to get creative with how they classify roles and compensate accordingly. They’ll put you into a silo, assign you a title, and tell you, “Here’s your salary—$50,000/year.” But that salary often has very little to do with the actual value you bring to the table. The ambiguity around pay scales is a game that a lot of companies play, and it’s a frustrating one.
Take this example of a pay scale for three positions:
Associate Employee: $64k-70k/year
Employee: $68k-80k/year
Senior Employee: $78k-90k/year
At first glance, these ranges seem fair, right? But what they really do is create overlapping pay scales that allow companies to give you a raise without truly compensating you what you’re worth. It’s all about making you feel good with a promotion, while keeping you underpaid. Here’s how the game typically plays out:
You start at the company, and they offer you $64k for an Associate role. A year goes by, and you get a raise to $65k—barely a cost-of-living adjustment. Another year passes, and they bump you up to $66k. Now, two years in, you’re ready for a promotion, so you ask for one. They agree, but instead of promoting you to a true senior position, they bump you to $69k and move you into the next pay scale. You’ve been promoted, but you’re still at the bottom of the new pay range.
Do you see the game here? They give you small raises, just enough to make you feel like you’re progressing, but not nearly enough to match the value of the work you’re doing. They drag you through these incremental increases, all while keeping you stuck within the confines of their carefully designed silos.
This is exactly what I ran into at my job, and it all came to a head in one of the most ridiculous wage review meetings I’ve ever experienced. I went into the meeting expecting a promotion, but instead, I was told—and I quote—“We looked at your salary and title. We were able to give you a promotion or more money. We assumed you wanted more money.”
They were trying to sell me the idea that, had I been promoted, I would have ended up with a lower salary than the raise they were offering me. Essentially, they wanted me to believe that all the extra work I had been doing, all the value I had been adding, was worth effectively nothing. I wasn’t being rewarded for the added responsibility or the progress I’d made—no, they were trying to convince me that the money I was getting now was better than a promotion.
It was one of those moments where it became painfully clear that they were playing a game to keep me in a position where they could extract as much work as possible without actually compensating me fairly for it. In their eyes, I wasn’t worth more because I had stepped up—I was only worth more because they had decided it was time to give me a small bump in salary. That meeting was a huge turning point for me, and it was hard to walk away without feeling like I’d been taken advantage of.
The Promise of Progress: When Feedback Falls Short
Piggybacking off the previous section, before the meeting ended, they gave me what felt like a half-hearted promise: if I kept doing what I was doing and took the constructive feedback they offered, they guaranteed I’d be promoted a year from that day.
At first, I was furious. I had put in the time, the effort, and the work—why wasn’t that enough? I stayed upset for a few days, stewing over my perceived unfairness. But then reality set in, and I realized this situation was out of my hands. The only thing I could control was how I responded.
So, I went back to work. I focused on the feedback they had given me because I knew that if I didn’t follow through, I’d just be stuck in that same cycle of frustration. The feedback was specific—things I could tangibly work on to improve. But the longer I stayed with the company, the clearer it became that feedback was only part of the equation.
If you’re going to act on feedback, you can’t just nod and agree—you have to follow through and expect results. The truth is, feedback without action doesn’t lead to meaningful change. So, I dedicated myself to doing what was asked of me, but I also started asking myself: what’s the end goal here? I wasn’t just going to keep going through the motions; I wanted real growth, both in terms of my skills and my position.
Looking back, I realize that this period was a tipping point. While I did follow through with the feedback, I couldn’t shake the feeling that I was doing everything I could, but the company wasn’t fully invested in my growth. That realization planted the seed for me to start looking at the bigger picture—what was I truly getting out of this company, and was it enough to justify staying long term?
The Turning Point: Discovering You’re Underpaid
Up until that point, I had never considered leaving my company. I had always ignored recruiter messages, thinking I was where I needed to be. But after the ongoing frustrations, I finally took the first call. It wasn’t about jumping ship; it was more about figuring out where I stood in the market.
The conversation was eye-opening. It took one conversation and I realized I was being underpaid, dramatically ,for the work I was doing. I had spent years dedicated to advancing within the company, yet here was an outside recruiter telling me I was worth more elsewhere. It was a hard realization—one that made me question everything.
That call shifted my perspective. For the first time, I felt like I was being held back and my loyalty to the company wasn’t being reciprocated. It made me realize that I wasn’t just frustrated with the company’s promises; I was undervalued. And from that point on I knew I was leaving it was just going to take the right company that I would feel like a good fit.
Looking back, it wasn’t one single moment that made me leave; it was the accumulation of missed opportunities, broken promises, and undervaluation. The signs were always there, but it took time—and a lot of reflection—to fully see them.
If you find yourself stuck in a cycle of frustration, questioning your worth, or realizing that your growth is being stifled, take a step back. Your career is yours to shape, and if the environment isn’t supporting that, it might be time to consider other options. Don’t be afraid to ask tough questions, seek honest feedback, and, most importantly, recognize when it’s time to move on for your own growth and happiness.